In losing weight. I absolutely snapped at my friend today because he did the usual "I don't think you need to lose weight" thing. I am heavier than ever, I have clothes which don't fit (clothes that I wear A LOT) and I feel bad about myself. I am really sick of hearing "I don't think you need to lose any" from everyone. Who cares, I want to!!!! And then they make it hard by offering sweets etc. Please tell me I am not the only one with friends like this, and tell me how you block them out. Whenever my best friend is trying to quit smoking I am very encouraging, to me this is the same.